I don't know what to do. My boyfriend has been pressuring me to try anal sex. I thought I had the perfect way out. I told him he could f*** my a** after I f***** his. To my surprise he said okay and let me slide a small d**** up his a** (which I have to admit was extremely exciting for me). I had him lie on his back and jacked him off while he had the d**** up his a**. Now he wants to f*** mine and I'm afraid it will hurt too bad. I told him we should work our way into it by starting with something small (like his c*** -- just kidding!) like his finger and then work up to a toy and then when I was ready his c*** but he doesn't want to go for that. He wants to to straight for the c*** in my a** and I'm not ready. Tonight in the shower I tried soaping up my finger and sliding it up my a** but it was almost impossible to get it in there. I tried to relax but I barely got the tip of my finger inside. I could use any advice you can offer! Signed Tight Assed Girlfriend.