I can't seem to stop myself from surfing the craigslist 'casual encounters' page. Ugh. In the last 6 months, I have hooked up with a total of 7 different women. I've seen most of these women more than once, and one calls me nearly every day. We've had delightful times!! Absolutely amazing sex... But I'm married. I've been married for 27 years to a woman I met when I was 17 (and we were both virgins when we met). Unfortunately, I married her to rescue her from a bad father/family situation rather than for love. And we've never had chemistry together as a couple (pretty much "zero" physical chemistry, and she has very little interest in sex). And my reasons for staying are many and I still care for her. She adores me and wonders regularly why I do stay with her... but kids are involved and my youngest is still a teenager. People often say, "look out for those quiet ones!" or that "nice guys will often surprise you!". Yep, I'm a nice guy. And I tend to be kinda shy and quiet. But now, I've got multiple woman who are regularly asking me, "can we get together again?". I love to please a woman and it seems I've gotten pretty good at it. But I really need to stop. I'm going to hurt my family, and also these other women who assume we are exclusive. But I can't seem to stop myself.
Are there other adults who find themselves in the same boat?