A Love confession
I have never been held or cuddled. I am an 18 year old Female who was sexually and Physically abused growing up. I want to know what it feels like to be cuddled, and to imagine it. I was recently adopted and sometimes she will explain it to me, but it's becoming more and more sparse. I will give you an example of what I'm looking for. "I will hold you tight, and carress your back with the tips of my finger tips. As you breath out, let all the stress of your body out...." please don't make this SEXUAL! and because of my past, I prefer to have this answered by women. I want it in a Mother-Daughter type cuddle. Thanks to all who respond! Don't be shy, I like lot's of detail!
Anonymous
I'm female and I too was physically and sexually abused as a child. It still hurts that the people who supposedly loved me did this, but whatever this is about cuddling. I tried cuddling with friends but it feels weird. While sleeping a friend cuddled with me and I couldn't fall asleep because it felt uncomfortable. It was like a hug behind my back, there was no space for me to sit normally and she kept laughing in her sleep that night lol. I think cuddles should take place during the day for me because when I try to sleep I get easily distracted..thats just me. Anyway, I dont know but I think a cuddle is the physical friendly contact that involves sitting somewhere and hugging someone to show your affection, and that means that not all cuddles are the same... You should watch family movies and see how the parents tuck their kids in their beds and cuddle with them before they go to sleep, that sort of thing is the most motherly cuddle I can imagine. And it doesn't necessarily involve caressing and stuff... Google it for more information.
Anonymous
I'm sorry I'm not a woman, but I'm here to say anything sexual. I have amazing parents but I've had chronic pain my whole life and insomnia/social anxiety disorder since I was 12. Every single night I lay awake in bed with a pillow in my arms, wishing I had someone to hold. I know, I don't know at all what it's like having abusive parents, I just wanted to share my pain of wanting to be held/cared-about and my two confessions from a week or so ago: (1) http://www.confessionpost.com/18765/shy-20-year-oldagain (2) http://www.confessionpost.com/18766/again-again
**hug**