I like your way of thinking about this. It sounds like you're doing what you want, and what's best for your relationship, and that's great.
Letting nature take it's course sounds really expensive, especially since you only have a minimum wage job. Babies are expensive, and the idea sounds more romantic then it is. Why don't you look into different birth control...IUD or something. Then plan your wedding, enjoy married life for awhile. You're quite young, live a little. Save some money and when the time is right PLAN for a baby.
This commenter is right. All the "teen mom" crap on tv is unbelievably bad and unreal and misleading. If the pill is too much trouble, get the implant, or use the Plan B program, or do something different. But don't ever have a baby just to shake things up or for any reason other than L-O-V-E.
If you stop with the pills, then start using duct tape over that stinky hole between your legs. People can't afford anymore welfare kids to support.
christ how did you get so nasty?? get some help with that. good luck.
Yeah, this is right. You seem like a nasty girl. But I guess some guys like that.
No.......ALL guys like nasty girls. In fact, scratch that: all guys LOVE nasty girls. But more so, if you display the initiative to stop the b/c, get yourself knocked up, and see how you like being pregnant (before making the decision whether or not to abort), then you're proving that you're the kind of girl who can be in charge of a relationship and in charge of a man. And lots of guys will fall all over themselves to get with a girl like that. Are you that girl? Can you control a relationship and control a man? Do you have the strength of character and will and intellect and sexuality to thoroughly dominate your partner in every way?
My guess? The answer to all those questions is "yes".
No, just do what you think is best for you. You're obviously already engaged to the guy, so letting him knock you up is both fair and reeeeeeeeally sexy. I say go for it!
I agree: if you want a baby, you should have a baby. Your bf will likely freak the fuck out, but if he does, then he wouldn't have been a good father anyway and you can go find a man who will be a good father and who will love somebody as hot as you. Please don't let anybody talk you out of what you want.
Your finance' probably WILL "freak the fuck out", but you should get off the pill. If you later decide the situation or the timing isn't right, or you do it for a while and just think you don't want to be a mom, you can always abort. Yes, get off the pill and see if you even like being pregnant and thinking about having the baby. I also agree with the other person who said it's sexy for you to be pregnant and not be married: it really is that.