When my now wife and I first went out together the sex was great, adventurous and fun. From getting blowjobs while her parents and niece were in the car with us, sex in public places, handjobs on the side of the road, sex with someone sleeping next to us no more than a metre away and just sex in general almost everyday. She would let me slide my dick between her arse cheeks, or her breasts to get myself off and then take my load in her mouth and I was able to finger her or give her oral quite a bit.
10+ years down the line, we're married, a little larger, have three kids and the extent of our sex is a little missionary here and there. She doesn't like me fingering her any more, she doesn't like oral either way and all in all it's quite boring.
I'm a very sexual person and quite often find myself looking at other girls and porn, not only lusting after them, but reminiscing about old times and wishing my wife was the same as what she was back in the days.
your wife could just be insecure about herself and/or her body, like you said its been 10+ years and you've had kids. Try to let her know you still think she's beautiful and amazing, it may help, or it might not.. idk
by: Anonymous
Same here at 27 years of marriage. And she acts like it's an abomination if I even make a racy remark to her, about her, in private! I cannot recall the last time she hugged me or let me hug her. If I ever get a kiss, it's for show in front of her sisters (she wants the appearance of the "perfect life" in front of them). The girlfriend idea seems to make sense m. Although it feels morally indefensible to me, it would be a huge burden off her shoulders, sweet relief for me, and keep things much more peaceful at home. I'm a grumpy, moody, deressed guy without it on a frequent basis. I used to worry about bringing home a disease or something. A celibate marriage has assuaged that fear! In fact, she just said, "I bet you'll be glad when u get older and your libido drops off." WTF?!?
by: Anonymous
OMG...hickory dickory dock, the bitch was sucking my cock, I shot my goo, and dumped the bitch on the next block...YOUR wife has a fucking problem, literally!!
by: Anonymous
My wife's problem was a hormonal imbalance of low progesterone. She finally went to a doctor to see why she had no libido. It was becoming a real problem in our marriage and she went to her ob/gyn to try and sort it out. Come clean and tell her how you feel. With me, the lack of sex was part of it. Bigger issue was becoming her unwillingness to show any affection at all. Things are getting better. On weekends for the last few weeks she's slept in a silk teddy with no underwear. A few nights ago she was up late and I came downstairs and slipped her pants off when she hugged me. Weeknight sex. Didn't think I'd see that again.
by: Anonymous
This problem is way more common than is acknowledged by the mainstream media/entertainment industry and therefore we get all of these idyllic marriages on TV and it's a load of horseshit. Go get yourself a girlfriend - that will fix it for you AND your wife because she will not feel inadequate as she has nothing to ive anymore.
by: Anonymous
well said
by: Anonymous
1. You both need to go on the "blood type diet"..you can google it. 2. If bringing up sex causes you wife to be offended or mad, then you might as well dump her...her message to you is: You are not going to fuck me again! Woman have a "fuck chip" in the head, and that chip burns out in many chicks way too early...stop suffering, and do what I did..I told my wife that I'm getting a girlfriend because she didn't like to fuck anymore...I now sleep at my gf's house 3 nights a week...
by: Anonymous
i am living same hell except 30 years married
by: Anonymous