I'm in my late 20's and unmarried. I've never really been serious with anyone. About a year ago I met this married guy at my workplace. I instantly felt attracted to him but it wasn't anything earth shattering. But then he started to flirt with me and things started to get kind of serious. At first I was avoiding him like hell but nothing seemed to work. He wouldn't leave me alone. My attraction to him started deepening into lust. I felt a bit relived when there was talk of him getting another job. But he didn't get that job and things got even worse! Now he calls me all the time, e-mails me, asks me out for coffee and now it seems like he is trying to spend every moment we're at the office together with me! For the record, I've never gone out with him, not even for coffee. I know he's just trying to get me to sleep with him. If anyone else was doing this I'd report him for sexual harassment but the truth is I feel horribly attracted to him! I've been trying to change my job just to get away from him but getting another job is proving to be difficult. I keep wishing he would go away! I keep saying 'No' to everything he says but he knows that my 'No' is not really a 'No'.I'm afraid if this goes on for much longer I'd probably give into my lust. I don't want to do that. I don't want to become 'that' woman. I feel so depressed! I feel like I've lost control of my life.