This should probably be under S** or Love, but...
...venting seems more appropriate.
My husband is a great sexual partner - he's not selfish in bed, or rough...but there's something he doesn't have. Outside of bed he can be intolerant, a***, and nit-picky in the extreme, which sometimes cancels out everything he does to me in bed.
So. I've got to fantasising about other men. ANY other men. His friends, any passing guy on the street, even his DAD for f***'s sake (who looks pretty good for his age, by anyone's standards).
Anyway, it's not a huge p**** I'm looking for, or endless o****** - my husband makes me o***** like crazy - it's just loving attention, I guess.
He f**** me expertly in bed but he doesn't treat me well out of it. I know there are other men who know I treat my husband like a king all the time, and they envy him for having me. Maybe it's just that I know there are ways in which I could do better?