I Fail At S**

For the life of me, I can't get myself to o***** and neither can my boyfriend.
We've tried a lot of different things and a lot of different positions and my boyfriend even bought me a vibrator. No o*****.
It's not like I don't feel ANYTHING or don't like s** or enjoy myself or anything like that, cause I've felt like I was on the edge of an o***** several times, but I've never been able to push myself over it by myself or with help or from anything my boyfriend has done.
I'm worried it's really going to become a problem in my relationship with my boyfriend soon. He's the kind of guy who prides himself on being a good lover and really cares about my pleasure and not being able to get me to o***** is really starting to get to him.
And although I was a virgin when we first got together, he wasn't, and because his sister is one of my best friends and that's how I met him and since they live in a small town she's pretty much friends with all the other girls he's been with and he's been with quite a few, I've heard all the stories about what an amazing lover he is, the best a few of them ever had, so it's not like I think I can't get off because he's not good enough...
I don't know what to do. I feel like I'm broken and it makes my boyfriend feel like a failure which just makes everything worse. I mean it's not like I don't want to have an o***** or I stop myself, and I'd say it's not like I haven't tried but from everything I've read about it, and I've done a lot of research to try to fix this, it doesn't happen when you're stressed about trying to make it happen...
I'm scared my boyfriend will either give up on trying to pleasure me when we have s** or will just break up with me...Or worse I'll never have an o***** and this kinda thing will become a pattern for me...


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  • Get a vibrator. Use it on yourself and make yourself climax. Then maybe bring into bed with him.

  • You need to find a way and a place to go and relax -- where you can try to learn to please yourself first in a non-threatening environment, like a spa -- after some massages, etc. It sounds like you are too uptight most of the time, trying to accomplish a goal rather than ease into things.
    You might try tantric massages and tantric s** where the emphasis is not on performance but rather pleasure....

  • That was really an amazing response. Your wife is very lucky.

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