My husband called me a w****

In December, a guy that I went to high school with contacted me via facebook. I hadn't seen or talked to him in over 14 years. We talked back and forth for a while and after about a month of going back and forth, innocent conversation, he emailed me a pic of his p****. My husband had my email password and one day, while I was at school, he got into my email and found it along with some posts on facebook. He completely flipped and said he wanted me to leave. We have been married for 14 years and I refused to leave. I told him that I didn't ask for the picture and I immediately deleted him off of my facebook and blocked him from my email. My husband and I moved on and all was going well. Last week, I was on the phone with my best friend griping about my husband, as all women do, he walked in the room and started yelling and screaming at me. He called me a w**** and said I am whoring around all over town. He was yelling at the top of his lungs and my children were in the next room. This crushed me because I have not cheated on him during our relationship and all because of a picture he thinks I am a w****. He said I broke all of his trust in me when he found that picture and he says I don't feel bad enough about it. I have apologized, but he says it doesn't seem like I mean it. I don't know what to do about it. He tried to kick me out again but I refused to leave because I have no where to go. We moved to PA 5 years ago and my family lives in another state. We have kids and I feel stuck. I feel completely disrespected and don't feel like I should stay. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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  • Frist thing old friend can cause trouble never let them get on face book with you.... now you see what happen ..now your husband think your s**** guy behind his back,,,,, get marriage counsel and work on the trust in your marriage ,,,,them your husband know you haven't been cheated on him,,,, good luck.....

  • Tell your husband that he the onlyman in your life and ou two go marriage counsel,,, work out the problem,,,,, never talk old boyfried on face book you can lose everything ,,,, i would run with the childrens he can get you for taking childrens out of state each state have differnce aw ,,, try to wrk your problem out frist ,,,,if you save a picture that guy d*** you can sue him for breakng your home up ......ask your huband to go to counselor okay.... never get back face book again ,,,,

  • I agree with the other person who mentioned that something happened during your previous online communications with the ex-boyfriend that made he believe or think that it would be okay or was wanted for him to send you an explicit photo.

    Ex's should be off-limits in communications - point blank period - unless you share a child(ren) with your ex and even then, discussions should only be about the child(ren) and in the presence of your husband so that there is no confusion as to what is being discussed.

    It's definitely not cool that your husband called you a w**** and has told you that he believes you are sleeping around town all because of a message you received online; however, in his defense, you disrespected him by being in contact with your ex, especially not in his presence, and the consequence of your allowing an online "friend" to interfere in your marriage is ultimately your fault.

  • wHY did you allow some old friend to introduce an erotic jest in your marriage? choose bteween your husband your old High school friend.WANEROBA

  • So you had some 'innocent banter' and the guy just suddenly sends you a picture of his c***? BULLSHIT. Something made this guy think it was ok and it wasn't 'innocent banter'. You're married now. You don't talk to your ex from highschool unless it's in the presence of your husband or your husband gets to see what is being written AS it is being written. It's a matter of respect for your spouse so that he/she will never have any reason to worry or wonder. Did your husband overreact? Yeah. It's called projection. Because he apparently and more than likely has a guilty conscience himself. Call your family, grab the kids and go back home. He'll either want to make it work or he won't. If he doesn't, get in touch with your ex from highschool for some more 'innocent banter'.

  • It's too bad he didn't see that message you immediately sent the guy saying you were appalled after he sent you that picture of his c***. You know, the message where you told him he had the wrong idea and nothing was going to happen between the two of you and you needed to stop communicating right now. You did send that message, didn't you? If not, your husband is suspicious and jealous because you have given him good reason to be. Stop playing the victim and own your behavior.

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