Im a parents wet dream

Im what some consider a loser.
Im a 15 year old girl and ive:
never been on a date
never had a boy/girlfriend
never kissed anyone
never done drugs
never been drunk
i get As and Bs
i usually go out an average of 3 times a month with friends...during the summer
i only wear long pants
i have about 10 friends
i only text 3 of them
i dont have a facebook
but i still act like im ok with it all
....im so alone.

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  • im the same only im a guy :( you sound nice though. I dont really like girls that are all slutty.

  • Wait until college for the partying, dating, drinking stuff IF you actually want to try it. Don't feel obligated to conform to other people's idea of "fun" but don't shut yourself completely off from these experiences either when the time comes. My social life didn't kick in until my early 20s and I have no regrets.

  • It's ok because you'll probably go to a great college it will change your life. High school is over rated. Get the grades, socialize as much as you can, and don't sweat the small stuff. College is really when life kicks off, you'll be able to build a whole new identify, make new friends, read/study the things you're interested in... enjoy yourself, life is short. (just do it wisely)

  • You definitely sound like me and a lot of other people I knew. Except you have way more friends than I did hah. I had 1 really good friend until I was 16, then my circle exploded to 4 good friends :)
    I didn't go on my first date until I was 18, and I didn't wear a skirt in public unti l was 19. People who are dramatic and do things for attention are not happy, as experience has taught me many times. Often it's the insecurity and pressure to fit in that makes them do things they think other people find "cool."
    Trust me, you're fine, and you have a lot more self-respect than the majority of people your age. Things get better, and as you grow you'll find that there's no need to pretend you're someone else.

  • I'll admit, down to the second to last line, I was (and still am) very impressed. now about the acting-like-it's-ok part: tell someone, like your parents, or an adult figure whom you respect and trust. Tell someone that your not OK with the status quo. telling people how you REALLY feel, can be scary as h***. But trust me, it's totally worth the effort. You're parents seem to care about you, let them in (just a little), because they're still learning too.

    Allow me to draw a parallel to your statements:

    whoever considers you a loser, isn't worth your time
    Dating is nice, but it's not life and death.
    patience, young one, the perfect person will eventually meet you
    Your only 15, you have plenty of time before your first kiss don't waste it.
    never do drugs... EVER!!! every druggy I've met has said they regretted their decisions.
    meh, wait till your legal age to drink, it's so much better then. ;)
    I wish I had A's and B's in school
    don't take the time you have with your friends for granted.
    Ok, talk to your parents about the "long pants" thing.
    I'd take 10 good friends over 20 crappy friends
    facebook is really an addicting waste of time.
    But nothing, do something (right) about it.
    "Your only ever alone when you separate yourself from those who love you."

    Stay strong. Keep doin' your thing. your young and have plenty of time. Right now it sounds like your on the road to a very pleasant future. You're Beautiful. Laugh when your happy, cry when your sad. Be free to be you. We live in a "taking" world, but give anyway, and do you part to make the world a little sweeter. Life is worth it... always.

    Gah! I can't stop thinking of how awesome it would to be you right now! But maybe you didn't come here for advice, maybe you didn't come here for gratification. I don't know. Maybe you came here to find someone to feel your plight. And yes, Life sucks sometimes... a lot. You will never get everything you want ever. you may be 40 when you find the one you love (I hope not). Sometimes it may seem hard to let go of feeling alone. Sometimes your friends will p*** you off, and it will seem as though you don't have any. All you may want is someone special to wrap there arms around you and just hold you, but nobody seems to care. how could they? they don't know what it's like to be you. Always having to impress your parents, by studying hard and dressing "right".

    To be happy, is to be content, with where you are now, with what you've got, with those you care about.

    Sorry about the long comment. I kinda, maybe, sorta got on my soapbox there. I've never been in the same boat as you, just the same storm. I hope I made a difference.

    unknownhehe is a perv, stay away from people like them.

  • Get on stickam & get naked :)


  • Nothings wrong with you honestly. I wish I could more like you. Need to cut down on my Facebooking. Try being more social && ask your parents for a bit more freedom if that's what's constricting you. It's important to have a healthy social life for your development. Drugs, driking && s**. Dont ever try the drug one. Drinking when it's legal age. && S** when you're older.
    -M.

  • your not a loser
    you dont run with the tide
    so obviously your running against it, even though it may be hard to imagine this, but your actions show you to be a rebel. you probly dont need to have blue eyebrows and a pierced arm pit (get the irony of "cool") but you are doing what you see others are not and doing it well A's and B's i commend you. at your age or high school i got called the last virgin cause someone told my secret to a guy i was seeing who i immediately dumped first and last date til i was twenty and guess who came to see me at twentyone? Rapist and #1 date rape drug, drunkeness, the two dont mix i was done for and not only that but lost my mind oh no not the f***** my brains out kind, the lunatic is on the run pink floyd kind, then came sucidal tendancy's then alchoholism, then fear of men, then oh it cant just be that agoraphbia yes fear of crowds or people what ever i dont leave the house unless i have to, ok so if my life was like yours only i wasnt smart enough for a's and b's, no i got my fair share of d's but mostly f's tudors and summer school didnt help me? why cause while i was living it up not exposed to the suffering of my future life well there was h*** between my father and my mother, i mean the kind of s*** that makes you wanna leave town and never go back kinda s***. battered women back then didnt have laws against them were they were committing endangerment of a minor and could have kids taken away so they were a tetertoting together not together and you never knew when you'd get a moments sleep, so if you go on with your life and increase even more of what you think is borring and loser of a life, I will someday rejoice from heaven above that you never caused someone to live like i do, and niether did you live as i do, if you will find some enjoyment in bieng responsible and heading towards a good rewards, then have a smile a laugh and get happy about something, cause God's all there is to being cool, and when you've had your share of real sorrows you could be thanking God that he has blessed with health to do the work, blessed your hands to do it well, blessed your heart to have the drive and committment to see it through, and A's and B's are pretty good evidence of that, so i would say, there's plenty of time for new experiences but dont loose sight of who and where you are now, because when the sorrows come if they would, there is comfort, and if nice guys finnish last, listen listen real good, women know this, if nice guys finish last ( unselfish) then they dont stop til they finish, and you dont need to worry about that til you can get the grades and the work that will help you provide a living and then you wait and see who has the hottest sexiest girl with a good heart at reunion you want to go to. keep it in mind, you gotta pave the road before you can walk on it, your not done pavin yours, when you do, it will be a mighty fine private drive and you'll be smart enough to get a prenumpt. there. put yourself in those shoes i wrote for you. sucess is the best revenve. and the only option!

  • Not a loser, your what more people need to be nowadays!

  • YOu sound awesome to me!

  • That sounds pretty frickin' awesome to me. If you have friends that you see and talk to and text regularly but you still feel alone there's probably some counseling you could get, it's not too hard, there's people at school or church if you go. All the exciting glitzy "fun" garbage you see kids doing on TV is complete bullcrap, do what you like doing, be yourself. What the previous person said about the number of friends is good advice too. Heck I don't think I even had ten people I could call "good friends" when I was young, and I turned out awesome, believe me the numbers aren't important.

  • You sound like a normal, beautiful person. Keep going the way you have and some handsome normal male will fall head over heels in love with you at the right time. Remember, regardless how it feels, s** is over rated out of marriage. Long term it causes more problems than anything else in the world. Just think about it. I would rather have ten good friends, or less, than fifty people who are not going to be true blue type friends. By the way, I am 64 and I had my first true relationship when I was 24. My s** is irrelevant. Have a good life! Remember, once you are married, you get to be with the one you intimately know without any possible embarrassment or indiscretion. That is powerful stuff.

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