I can't seem to stop myself from surfing the craigslist 'casual encounters' page. Ugh. In the last 6 months, I have hooked up with a total of 7 different women. I've seen most of these women more than once, and one calls me nearly every day. We've had delightful times!! Absolutely amazing s**... But I'm married. I've been married for 27 years to a woman I met when I was 17 (and we were both virgins when we met). Unfortunately, I married her to rescue her from a bad father/family situation rather than for love. And we've never had chemistry together as a couple (pretty much "zero" physical chemistry, and she has very little interest in s**). And my reasons for staying are many and I still care for her. She adores me and wonders regularly why I do stay with her... but kids are involved and my youngest is still a teenager. People often say, "look out for those quiet ones!" or that "nice guys will often surprise you!". Yep, I'm a nice guy. And I tend to be kinda shy and quiet. But now, I've got multiple woman who are regularly asking me, "can we get together again?". I love to please a woman and it seems I've gotten pretty good at it. But I really need to stop. I'm going to hurt my family, and also these other women who assume we are exclusive. But I can't seem to stop myself.
Are there other adults who find themselves in the same boat?