I am being forced by my family to get married because its the right age, they say. But I want to hold it off for two reasons-
1. i just quit my job and am currently doing a course that would help my career ahead. I want to be able to support myself (i.e. get a job) before even considering marriage. But I still have doubts whether I will be able to get one after the certification.
2. Currently, I am in two weird relationships. One, with my ex-bf with whom i broke up 2 years ago, but still keep in touch wondering why and whether it was the right thing to break up. And two, a very dear friend who is a lot like me and has helped me a lot in my life and for whom I might have feelings for. But for both of them, I dont feel my heart leaping out, like the head-over-heels feeling.
I feel I am screwed in my thinking and doomed, esp coz i see everyone around me progressing in life and I, on the other hand, am unemployed and living with my parents. Please suggest about the relationship issue, whom should I hook up with, or is it better if I start afresh and go the arranged marriage way?