Former Swinger

Most people will not look at you the same way let alone your husband. Unfortunately, the only men who wouldn't care are the very ones who would swap you for s** with another girl in a heartbeat. All women should think of this when their partner asks them to swing. Regular men will find this behavior off putting and it will always be in the back of their minds preventing them for maintaining a relationship with you. This leaves you with 2 types of men who would accept your past ..those who would wish to engage in the lifestyle with you and a tiny group of men who can actually accept it.

I'm the opposite. I'm fixated on swinging, my darling husband is a devout monogamous man in his late 40s and I passed drinking age just recently... I would love to have your experiences and you should not be blamed or shamed by your husband even once he learns the truth, if you decide to bring it up over breakfast lol...

I didn't say they were all men, most were with couples, so it was with women and men, and occasionally just a solo female or a solo male.

I just don't think my husband would understand if he knew all of my sexual history.

Probably should have thought of that before marrying him.

Ignore what others are saying I was in the same boat. You see I've slept with over 300 people. Just sit him down and explain to him about your past but don't tell him the actual number. Tell him like 20 people trust me. And I'm a man btw do I call myself a man w**** yes but it doesn't bother me. We are only human we all have lusts and desires. Some people can't handle the truth.

If you have had s** with over 100 guys think of all the things you have learned. You must be great in bed and your Husband is a lucky guy.