Douchebag attraction

Why am I still attracted to this older guy who is a total douchebag? Years ago, I was totally crazy about him. I dated him for a little while, until he got distant & the "relationship" fizzled. A few times a year, we run into each other in passing & are just acquaintance friendly to each other. Both of us have clearly moved on. However, whenever he speaks to me, I can't help but feel those sparks that I haven't felt with anyone else afterwards. It's so twisted, because I know he's a j***. Maybe I'm just attracted to a*******? Ahhhh..

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  • This is have got nothing going on in your find this guy entertaining, and you are curious about him...unfortunately, you could date him, and you will still have nothing going on in your life.

  • You are setting your sights too high. Aim lower. He was too good for you.

  • I dont understand why girls are attracted to douchebags!? Why can't they just be attracted to the good guys FOR ONCE. Move on. He's a j***. A******* might be fun and cool now, but you'll want a nice guy in the end.


  • I totally agree with you. I even tried dating a nice guy afterwards. We dated for months, however there were no sparks. I wish there were, but it just never happened. I don't know; it must be the way my brain is wired :( I'm my own worst enemy!

  • Oh Rob, quite whining.

    Jenny sucks

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