Connection between s** and mentality
Im 20 and im going out with a 30 years old man. we started going out since a year ago and everything was great. i love him so much and yeah we seem to have great chemistry. we've been having great s** for about 6 months now but here's the issue. for the past 1-2 month he has a problem maintaining an erection during s**. we are both attractive sexually so i dont think there's a problem coming from that.
and this is getting complicated since he had trouble getting hard in the first place for the last 2 weeks. we aroused each other before s** and he always said he's very h**** but i cant see any erection.
im not saying that im not satisfied. actually yeah im disapointed , but i love him so much i dont want this to be his burden. he seems to be in pressure and stressed everytime he's incapable of getting hard.
when i asked him is it because of me? did i do anything wrong? or something like, is he bored with me, am i less atractive now? this is kinda affecting my confidence as well. he said nothing wrong with me, its just because he smoke
is it because of his age? i asked about how hes been doing lately, is there any problem etc but he said everything is fine.
i read from the internet that when a man thinks about how he should not fail keeping his d*** hard, that is when he is becoming more concerned of it and then it affects his brain ,so he will start losing erection.
i told him not to worry about it since he seems to be stressed and i couldnt do anything. i guess he's just bored with me. at first he's still excited when he see me naked. now he dont. :(
we still love each other
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I'd just leave unless things are too serious. It is his problem, although it probably isn't one. It's not you either. He's probably got a lot of s*** on his mind
Def not his age I'm in my forties and this has never ever been a problem for me - from the age of 17 - present probably have s** 2+ times a week, so def not age related
definitely a matter of stamina. You should just forget about him if you want a perfect s** life...
Nina
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P*** is immoral...but, it gets a man hard...so, look at some p*** with him....are you too proud?
That can happen to anyone and it doesn't mean there is a problem with you. It could just be anxiety or it could be a physiological problem that is not anyone's fault. It happened to me too.
There are three drugs he could try. Usually they work, but not always.
He's 30 and cant get hard? I'm 50 and my d*** gets hard when the wind blows. He's getting it elsewhere or drinking too much. Or you got fat. My two cents.
Your fat. My ten cents.
And...there is your answer....
Either he is cheating, or he is drinking too much f****** alcohol! Go ONLINE and order a male blood panel from a local lab company....you will have one in your local area...and you better get tested for VD.
he's cheating. don't kid yourself, honey. he's getting it somewheres else.