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You are 16. Don't be in a hurry to loose your virginity. You are feeling the natural sexual urge that comes with growing up. You say that everybody hates you, but it won't last, there is college, a life after high school in which you will find people more to your liking and vice versa. As in everything, you need to be in the "mood" to m********* and find your own "thing" which could be fantasy, a technique or anything that rocks your boat.
Be patient and discover yourself.