Im a 21 year old girl, ive been with my fiance since i was 16. This last year has been the worst year of my life. I get so depressed sometimes and I feel like i cant talk to anyone about it because I dont want to come across as whiney. My mum has MS. Last year she was diagnosed with breast cancer and then shortly there after dementia. She had and MS relapse and was in hospital for 4 months. During this time, my dad also ended up in hospital with a burst appendix and infected kidneys, my brother was nearly killed in a car crash and now only has 17% of his elbow left (the person driving the car was his best friend who has since, along with his family, harrassed my brother and sent him nasty messages etc calling us scum bags and ambulance chasers) and my sister had a crohns disease relapse and became pregnant with her second child so is also in and out of hospital. I work full time as a home care worker then come home and do EVERYTHING around my house. Im so tired all the time, i have been worried for a while that I may suffer from adult chronic fatigue syndrome but on top of everything have not had time to go to the doctors. To add insult to injury, my fiances mother is a horrible b****. She tells my fiance things like 'I didnt find out I was pregnant with you until I was 6 months, otherwise i would have aborted you' and still he chases round after her. She calls me names all the time and says im lying about my mums illness' to guilt trip my fiance into living with me. Shes never liked me and ive never known why. I dont know anyone else my age that goes through all the stuff I have to deal with so I dont know who to talk to.