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I have been trying to get rid of my shyness by getting a fwb. i think that way because i can get rid of my shyness by having s**. dont try and comment because u think im a girl (im 14 and a male). so yeah, i just needed to get that out. i need advice if this is a great idea to get a fwb to get rid of my shyness or not -Bane98

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  • First of all, wait a few years. You are not ready for s** and it's possible consequences - like becoming a father. Second, work on the shyness. I suggest you go out and buy a book called The Art of Conversation. It will help you with learning how to talk to other peole. You have to really follow all the exercises in the book, though. Good luck!

  • I think you are too young to be thinking about all this!!! 14? Honey, no matter if you are a girl or a boy, you need to wait. I know you're an angsty hormone-ridden teen and you think you're mature enough, but no 14 year old is mature enough to handle this kind of thing yet. Second, s** doesn't cure shyness. If you don't want to be shy anymore, you need to start talking to people. Go up to someone in school and just start talking to them. Or maybe if you skate, talk to someone at a skate park. Or if you like comics, talk to someone in a comic store, etc.
    And all this is coming from a 17 year old girl, who had her virginity taken from her when she was 14. I would give anything to have it back. So please, sweetheart, save yourself for when you're older, when you know what love is, and when you're done with puberty. <3

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