Married but no s**

I have been married nearly 10 years, and with my husband for 17 years. I am in my mid 30s. My husband is bipolar, and has other medical issues which keep him on high levels of medication. I don't know if it's the medication, or what his problem is, but he has lost his libido. Physical affection is zero, and we haven't had s** in months.

I need physical affection, but he just isn't interested. It is putting such a strain on our relationship. What am I to do? I have tried talking to him about it, but he just picks a fight, or says he is too tired :(

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  • I am also a male, bi-polar, and am on heavy medication. Sometimes it just doesn't work for me. My precious wife is willing to stick with me through thick and thin, so she has told me she will never leave me -- truly a heart of gold, and we definitely try hard together. I at least remember the days when we had perfect s** -- in discussions with others, it is apparent that we had better s** than anyone I know of. It is indeed important to have that relationship. I am a bit stuck, knowing what to do. I do have testosterone shots (not just the pills -- this works much better) and v*****. This seems to make it possible at least once a week, maybe twice. I don't know what your tolerance is for that kind of stuff, but I pray for you and wish you the best and hope that he can at least try by doing something about it. But I would suggest those last two things, because without them it didn't work at all! Take care and lots of love :).

  • Most likely is the medication.

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