Parents supervised first s**
We had our wedding receoption at a big central city high rise hotel. Our grand departure was to take the elevator to our room. As we got in the elevator my wifes parents got in too.
This was a surise to me and then in the elevator my wife just started sobbing. When we got out we walked to our room and she was crying. We went in and I asked what was the matter. She said her parents had to be with us the first time we 'did it' to make sure the wedding was consumated.
wow like this just blew me away. We had not had s**. Both of us had believed in waiting until we were married so we were both very naive and to be honest, I had not ever seen a naked woman and except when I was little the only woman who had ever to my knowledge seen me naked was my mum.
We talked and my wife was adimant. I was scared, angry confused and a million other feelings all at the same time.
I opened the door and her parents were standing there and they came in.
She went into the bedroom with her mother and undressed. Her mother came out and said she is ready now. The father and I went in. My wife was just standing beside the bed completly naked. Just stood there. The rest of us were still dressed up from the reception.
Her mother pulled back the bed cover and layed a towel she had brought (not a hotel toewel) on the bed and told her to lie on the bed with her legs apart.
I wasn't even aroused. I was all floppy. I was embarrassed. Her father told me to take off my pants and I undressed but still not aroused. So I had my shirt on but naked from the wast down.
The mother told her to come over and touch me. My mother in law had a tube of lubricant and squeezed some into my wife's hand and told her to rub me and she did and I got hard very quickly.
Then the mother in law told my wife to lie back and I had to get on top and penetrate her. I only got partway in and my wife screwed up her face and got tight. It was painful for my wife and hard for me. My mother in law and father in law said to push harder. They were very forceful demanding and said to get on with it. I pushed harder and got in and I came and then I pulled out. There was blood. My wife was crying and she went and had a shower. My mother in law took her towel and they both left.
I went to see my wife but she just wanted to shower on her own. I had a shower after her and then we both lay together in bed and just hugged. We did not have s** again until the last night of our honey moon a week later. Then I was gentle and I think she just did it out of a feeling of obligation. Now we seem to not have s** very often but it is happening more and I am always patient and gentle with her but it is very very frustrating as sometimes I have to wait for weeks with gentle hints and doing nice things to try to get her in the mood.