Spicing up the s** life!

Me and my boyfriend don't have a bad s** life in any way really, I just want to try something new and see what happens. I know he does too.

Any ideas? Toys, positions, or anything really.

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  • Have you tried pegging him?

  • Just try a lot of things that you don't usually do. Wear some sexy lingerie for him - and insist on leaving the stockings (and different other things) on during s**. Go buy a pair of 4 or 5 inch 'f*** me' heels and keep them on during s**. Get some restraints (Amazon has so many choices. I like the leather and velcro ones, not handcuffs - much more comfortable), get naked and attach one side to one wrist in bed with the other looped around the bedpost (or whatever) and call him in the room and say demurly "can you help me attache this to my other wrist, and then do with me what you want?". Tell him that you'd like to experiment doing some different things during s** - slap you on the ass while he is f****** doggie style to see how it feels. If you don't like it, tell him to stop (perhaps agree on a safe word beforehand that means "stop and I'm not kidding"). Try having him bite your nipples; if it feels good, tell him to bite a little harder. If you like the pressure on your nipples (but not a real hard bite), buy a set of nipple clamps. If you are not already doing it, talk dirty to him during s** and tell him you want him to talk dirty to you. "oh god I love it when you f*** me hard and fast! f*** me harder!" can go a long way to getting him turned on (and vise versa). I personally don't recommend adding a 3rd or 4th person to your sexual relationship as that often is the beginning of the end due to jealousy and even cheating, but imagining a 3some or swapping can be a huge turn-on. Just tell him that you want to leave it as a fantasy (unless you are both very sure that you want to try it). Hope this helps.

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