I'll miss being in a bdsm relationship

I was in a bdsm relationship with a man nearly twice my age. I never felt more confident than when I was with him. I was not only l****** for this man, but loving him as well. Today he told me we should go our separate ways, and that he found someone that is a better fit for him. I am now here crying, scared that I will never find someone that satisfies me sexually the way "Master" did.

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  • You'll find someone. I promise!

  • Nearly every medium-to-large city has at least a few private BDSM clubs. Find one (preferably with only a few members) and get involved. At first, just go and work the parties, handling drinks, food, whatever; just be there. And meet people. You shouldn't announce (much less, advertise) yourself as a sub; the masters will smell your scent and innately know what you need. And then they will give it to you. Be a part of the family and enjoy yourself. You don't have to cry over this one dom you lost (they all do this regularly, usually going with a younger woman or a girl): there are plenty of them out there, and at least one of them is meant for you. Or vice versa.

  • You will find someone to replace him, I promise. However, if you go out looking for someone to do you exactly the way he did you, or to dominate you exactly the way he dominated you, you'll be disappointed. You need to look for, and hope for, someone totally different, because difference is good. And since difference is what you're going to get anyway, EXPECTING difference will allow you to achieve success. Look for somebody more nearly your age. Somebody married. Somebody in a relationship with a woman who doesn't know his secret. Be choosy. Truly submissive women are a rare prize beyond belief, and so you can afford to let the forces of supply and demand work to your advantage. You're going to find somebody great, and somebody even more attuned to your own need to be controlled. He's going to love you, and you're going to love him, and it's going to be wonderful. Let it happen.

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