I am a stay at home mom with three kids and go to school online full time. My husband truly feels his only responsibility is to go to work. He won't even take out the trash. I feel so alone all the time. I'm working my ass off to keep kids, home and garden clean and cared for.aintaining a 3.9 GPA and he won't even have s** with me or put a movie in for the kids so I can do homework. I want out. I can do bad all by myself.