Tough Titty

I confess that I have been carrying on a love affair with my best guy friend. Its been going on for almost 10 yrs. We are both married. We both have wonderful spouses that everyone loves and adores. The only problem, is that we both are sexually frustrated with them. When we get together its this raw, heated amazing s**. Its something that we both have privately discussed that we will not end our marriages, because we just know that its not in the cards for us to be together. He has this amazing way of just making me weak. I touch his c*** and I'm revving to go. When we kiss its like I'm on fire. I know he is as turned on as he makes me and when we have s** its like this rush of energy. Its the best s** I have ever had my entire life. Before anyone starts bashing us for being cheaters, its not what we plotted out, its just that we both are very sexually needy and our spouses just don't live up to what we need and desire. We are faithful to each other and stay quiet about what we are doing. We know we are not the only ones, and we have both discussed with our spouses about being in open marriages, but we are not very successful in the swaying. He reads on this site and I know he will end up checking this one out. I know its not as entertaining as the guy l****** his sister-n-law or the guy banging his neighbor, but you know when we get together its like that stuff. The minute you slide into my kitty and thrust into that spot we are just this one incredible energy of emotions. Thank you for making life alot more enjoyable.

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  • This is so common, I'm currently in a relationship where my other half is always sick or makes up something to be sick, she feeds off the attention from docs ect, If the Doctor doesn't prescribe her something she will go to another till someone gives her a diagnosis. We do not go out or see friends she's always complaining. It's a massive turn off and I have no sexual desires towards her. I can understand your situation you are both well off and in a good place financially and socially p, if thingsd I'd end you would have to look at the repercussions of you both ending your marriages. Just be really careful on how you play this if they are not into the whole relationship thing then it won't happen. It's a. Shame though that you don't realise what you get into until it's to late. Personally i like to loom at what I'm doing right or wrong in a relationship and try and fix it but when the other half don't even see what hey do it can be incredibly hard to sort he issues out.

  • I'm still tying to figure out this part: "We are faithful to each other and stay quiet about what we are doing." You're cheating on your husband. If you just cheat with one person, for 10 years, that's sill not being faithful. Assuming you still have s** with your husband, doing so means you are "unfaithful" to your lover. Your lover "cheats" on you when he has s** with his wife. How are either of you faithful to anyone in any way?

    But I digress... you've been at this for 10y so I imagine you don't have any moral problems with what you have been doing. But assuming that you feel somewhat guilty (since you're confessing on-line), here is my advice: you can't have it both ways. Loving a spouse is many types of love combined. That means sexual as well as brotherly/familial, christian, boon-companion, kindred-spirit, etc. If you really loved your husband, it would CRUSH your soul to think of how he would feel if he ever found out you cheated. If that is how you feel when you think about that happening, how can you go on cheating? It also means that no one gets your panties wet like your hubby... if you don't feel that, then you need to find a way to get that feeling back, and if you can't then you need to end it. Period. This whole "I love my husband in every way except sexually" is bullshit. That makes him your brother/best friend, not your husband. if that's the case, be honest with him AND yourself. After so many years together hasn't he earned honesty? Would you have if roles were reversed? Stop being selfish and think about the feelings of those you profess to love. Be truthful and honest, love him in every way a wife is supposed to love her husband (and no other) or end it. Don't forget, even single, you're still a w****/home-wrecker for having s** w/ a married man. But I doubt any of that bothers you after 10 years. lol

  • The cheating on your spouse is your business. What irks me is your spelling "alot" as one word when it's two words, "a lot."

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