I want a guy half my age...but
Okay this is a confession but it's also got a survey attached.
I am 47, I am attracted to a guy who's maybe 20-22 years old. Without me saying but by my eyes and my body language he could tell I want him. He is wicked sexy.
But then he got mad at me because after he approached me a few times, I didn't let it get anywhere. I think he hates me now. He probably feels shot down by me.
I want to verbally tell him I find him very attractive, but I didn't mean to mess with his head by not taking things further. I don't want him to feel led on and played.
This is not an ordinary situation. Things are complicated for me. I have a long time partner (significant other.) That isn't actually the problem. My S.O. would let me f*** this young guy but...I couldn't anyways. I have herpes. I won't do anything with another guy unless he's got herpes too. Even if we can't f***, I won't suck the young guy's d*** either because my S.O. has asked me not to do that for other guys. It is, after all, unsafe s**.
If you were the young guy, would you want to know what I want to tell him....and how would you deal with this ? What would you think of me and my situation ?
Would you rather know someone thought you were very hot but they still can't do anything about it with you ? (Unless of course by random chance he has herpes too.)
Or is it better not to know ?