I am being blackmailed for s** by a guy who has a s** tape of me. I have never seen the video and part of me thinks he's just bluffing to get me to have s** with him, but the other part is still worried if it's real he might show it to other people. I have a boyfriend and this guy knows that. He constantly texts and calls me. Obviously my boyfriend has no idea of this s** tape and I'm not about to tell him because I'm afraid he'll leave me. I don't want to have s** with this guy because I don't wanna hurt my boyfriend and even if I did there is no guarantee he wont show it anyway.

Please help me, I don't know what to do.
Any decent advice will be appreciated.


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  • Figure out a way to really scare this guy who is threatening you with the 's** tape' there anything you could use against this guy that would really scare him? perhaps you should tell him that you have told the police about him and then somehow bribe the s** tape out of him-(if it even exists)....could you perhaps get a tribe of your friends together and think up a plan of action against this bully to get the so called s** tape and stop him once and for all?..perhaps get the police involved to?- tell the police to ring him and ask him to hand over his s** tape to the police station, etc...just get your thinking cap on, im sure you can think up a genius plan if you try

  • Call the police, especially since you have proof! Your BF doesn't have to find out, however it might be good for you guys to grow from it. A BF or husband wants to be the knight in shining armor, this is a moment for him to protect your from that scum. If he is mad about it, then he isn't a guy that you should want to be with.

  • Never give in to blackmail. You think it will stop with just once? He'll keep pushing for more until you finally say no, at which point he will release the s** tape anyway (assuming he has one). Having s** with him will only delay the release of the tape, not prevent it.

  • This guy is scum. Set up a meeting with him and have the police watching close by. You should think about the other people he`s going to do this to all through his pathetic life.

  • S** without consent, including when consent is given but under duress, is classified as rape. Tell the guy that and see if he backs off.

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