How to calm down kinky s**

How do I calm my boyfriend down to vanilla s**? I love him so much but he's too much for me now. We have been together almost 3 years and have sexually experimented alot over the years and now he wont calm down. S** is ruined for me. Its now a chore I dread doing and its ruining our relationship.
He can no longer enjoy s** unless I strangle him saying very cruel things or let him tear my a*** with a toy or his p****. I have to pretend he's someone else and call out a different name.
I really want to stay with him but how can we when every night I dread bedtime?

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  • Tell him to get a lover she will take some pressure off you and if you suck him each morning it should calm him

  • I'm sorry but this will never work. I can completely agree with the first commenter's advice in many situations however I think this one is too far gone. This man will never be satisfied with regular s** and you will be battling this topic for as long as you are with him.
    Honestly, leave him and find a more suitable partner before yet another wonderful year of your life is compromised!

  • Well, the first thing you need to do is talk to him. Don't do this right before or after s** or when he's distracted. Do it when you both have time to sit down and have a real conversation. Use a lot of "I" statements, "I" feel this or "I" want that... this will help prevent him from getting defensive. It may come as a shock to him that you're dissatisfied with your s** life. Be prepared to hear him out and make compromises, it's not like you want to stop completely, just take it down a notch. Have a little soft and sweet to go with the hard and nasty. Remember, you have as much right to enjoy s** as he does.

  • Thank you ??

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