Is it l*** or attrtaction?

Question??? I work with a very nice attractive divorced woman. We go out for dinners and drinks just to get out. We're both in our mid 50's. There has been no s**, matter of fact she bluntly told me she wasn't into s** at all. I respeced that and never asked her for it since we do work at the same place and we've been friends for a long time. It was nice just to get out especially with a really nice looking woman. I have a need to ask, are woman in this age catagory sexless or are they just keeping you at a respectful distance? I noticed after putting her off for a month she started in with "we need to have some fun". Last time a woman said that to me she seduced me. Prior to putting her off she would end the night with a kiss on the lips, the last 2 were more than a peck on the lips. I didn't think much about it until now. But how can a woman who clearly stated she's not into s** kiss me like that, then say we need to have some fun. Am I reading her wrong? Is she starting to look for more from me? Don't get me wrong, I am attracted to her but I don't want s** to ruin our friendship, I'd sure love to be her friend and lover but I know the dynamics change when friendship turns romantic, it changes everything. Where do you think this is going?

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  • My wife and I are in our 50's. We have s** at least 3 times a week and sometimes more. If she is doing more that just a peck on the lips then you need to start making a move or she WILL move on to someone who will.

  • Women's libidos are lowered as we age, but that doesn't mean it's a sexless existence. Your friend may have just said that to you to keep things platonic. She could really like you as a friend, and who knows maybe those feelings are changing. Maybe she is testing you, but doesn't want to jeopardize the friendship and working relationship. You guys are friends, have you ever just asked her if she would consider dating you? At least then, you would have a clearer answer and then not be confused.

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