Is it l*** or attrtaction?
Question??? I work with a very nice attractive divorced woman. We go out for dinners and drinks just to get out. We're both in our mid 50's. There has been no s**, matter of fact she bluntly told me she wasn't into s** at all. I respeced that and never asked her for it since we do work at the same place and we've been friends for a long time. It was nice just to get out especially with a really nice looking woman. I have a need to ask, are woman in this age catagory sexless or are they just keeping you at a respectful distance? I noticed after putting her off for a month she started in with "we need to have some fun". Last time a woman said that to me she seduced me. Prior to putting her off she would end the night with a kiss on the lips, the last 2 were more than a peck on the lips. I didn't think much about it until now. But how can a woman who clearly stated she's not into s** kiss me like that, then say we need to have some fun. Am I reading her wrong? Is she starting to look for more from me? Don't get me wrong, I am attracted to her but I don't want s** to ruin our friendship, I'd sure love to be her friend and lover but I know the dynamics change when friendship turns romantic, it changes everything. Where do you think this is going?