My wife's friend asked me to rape her

My wifes friend asked me to rape her, said she had a rape fantasy of me holding her down, ripping off her cloths and me forcing s** on her. I asked her if she ever told that to my wife and she said no, she said she would never say a word about it if I was into some kinky s** with her. I said no, I'm not going to do that. I have no desire to cheat on my wife, I'd never risk my marrige on a sexual fantasy with another woman, especially on someone elses fantasy. I feel guilty as h*** hiding this from my wife. I wanted to tell her, but I felt it would be better if I let it go. Why do I feel so guilty when I didn't do anything. I hate when this woman comes over to visit, I can't even stay in the same room with her. One of these days my wife will notice my distain for her friend who had the potential to destroy my good marrige. I want to tell my wife but it's been a few weeks, I know she'll get very angry I didn't tell her when it happened. Should I tell her? I know that friendship will end as soon as she hears this and my ass will be in the doghouse for not telling her sooner. I feel trapped in something I didn't bring on or start.

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  • Suggest to your wife's friend that she talk to your wife and ask her if she's (your wife) has ever fantasized of having a 3some, and if she has, would she like to do it with her and the 2 of you? If she's in on it, then its not cheating

  • Not gonna lie but maybe you could write her note and give it to here spoken pretty much like your confession. But sit with her while she reads it. Include on the note that you didn't tell her sooner cause you didn't want to ruin her friendship. But after lots of concideration you want her to know that her friend is not what she seems instead of letting it go.
    It's very obvious you love your wife.
    She deserves to know that she isn't respecting either of you.

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