My Wife's Past S** Life is Killing Me
My wife and I have been happily married for years and have two wonderful children. About three months ago she made a confession which absolutely shocked me... she had participated in an orgy when she was in her early 20s. I knew that my wife had a fairly long-term relationship with another man before she knew me. We weren’t exactly virgins when we married, but I never expected this from her. At first I though it was some kind of joke, but it wasn’t. She said she had gone through a wild streak during this time in her life, and one New Year’s Eve she found herself invited to a ritzy party overlooking the Hudson. She said that the atmosphere was “loose and sexy”. One thing led to another and there were only two women left at the party during the early morning hours, and you guessed it, she was one of them. She said that she and the other woman had s** with ten or more men, she couldn’t be sure of exactly how many, because she was bombed out of her mind most of the time. Some time after that she met the other man I mentioned, and she settled down. She can’t fully explain why she did it. She says it was a combination of things; the moment, alcohol and drugs, and youthful excess. She says she has never done anything like that since then, and never will again, but I can’t get rid of the thought of other men taking turns plowing my wife like a cheap w****. Should I let bygones be bygones?