S** with stepbrother

I am 19 and my stepbrother is 17 we have known each other for about 6 or 7 years now. My mom and his dad got married and I have 2 other brothers. Me and let's say his name is jake have always been having a different connection. It all started when I was about 16 and he was 15, we would watch tv together and he would start to hold my hand, later in the night we started to kiss, then after a while we started making out every night. One night we were on the couch making out he was on top of me and while we were making out he decided to skip his hand down my pants and for the first time started to finger me. So now, at night we made out and he fingered me and started to eat me out. Starting when I was 18 and he was 16 he started sleeping in my bed, just watching tv. One night When everyone was asleep we decided to have s**. So from than to now I am 19 he is 17 we have been having s**, making out, holding hands, ect.. He recently went back to school and had been acting different. But we still had s** a day before I found out he has a new girlfriend. It's been a day since I found out and all I want to do is cry. I don't know how to get my mind off of jake. We tell eachother we love eachother every night but then I find this out. I am so confused and don't know what to do anymore. I feel worthless, sad, angry, and used. What should I do, he knows I'm not happy anymore. I just want this depressed feeling out of me.


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  • Find someone new. Find someone who can treat you better and NOT use you

  • As step sister and brother, you aren't doing anything wrong. Meaning..it's not incest. It may not be an easy situation to deal with when what is happening occurs because you're family now. Think you really have to figure out what you want. Because he is still in high school and very immature. And not sure why he couldn't just say to you that he wants to break up or whatever so he can date someone. The way you found out was just so cold. And yes, he was using you in some ways. But if it came down to a mutual decision for you two to actually date. You couldn't keep this a secret, you would need to tell your parents/family. And the worse part about secrets in these cases is that you don't have anyone to talk with..You're just going to have to be really mature and deal with this one the best you can. You have feelings for him..and you'll need to treat this as a break up and accept the next steps. You'll be okay. But as long as he has a girlfriend, your relationship with him from now on is completely platonic or you'll continue to feel hurt by him. And it's going to take time, but it will get easier.. you'll be okay.

  • You should just slowly pull back from him tell him how you feel and he'll come around to feeling guilty

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