Threesome conversation

I expressed to my boyfriend my interest in threesomes (of all compositions). He's interested in MFF, but not MMF. I'm interested in both, and I want both! Is there a respectful way to persuade him to entertain the idea of another dude in the bedroom? Is it fair for me to want to?

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  • I'm within a similar situation.However,
    I want to explore my lesbian side and I don't want another man,to penetrate any part of me,if he isn't my partner.
    My man is the only male,I want and desire.I just want,to explore my lesbian side.

    Maybe your man feels threatened,jealous and intimidated,at the idea of another man that isn't him,making love to you.
    I can understand why.
    Don't force your man,to do something,he's not comfortable with.
    If he's happy with another girl being involved,settle for that.Relationships are about,"compromise" :)

  • Most MMF are just that, the men are interested in the woman. As a woman that sounds very exciting to me. He must be a very controlling guy if he is OK with two woman for him and not two men for you. Seems selfish to me.

  • MMF is one where the dudes would do stuff with each other. MFM is where they don't, the key is the letters touching. My gf and I have had a MFF threesome and are going to have another threesome next weekend. Though we aren't sure if it's going to be MFM or MFF but either way i'm pumped.

  • What is it when there is four guys and only one girl and they are all doing her

  • Gang bang!! MMMMF

  • It isn't what you think. MMF someone is going to be stroking while watching the other two unless they are bi. MFF again unless they are BI someone is on the outs. I did it once never again was a let down. But try it and see.

  • All participants must agree and set regulations to be followed. Otherwise don't do it.

  • I, myself, not into MMF. So no.

  • NO not if he doesn't want it. I am a heterosexual male and the thought of having s** (of any sort) with another man frankly revolts me. Your BF may well feel the same. Looks like it's time to sound out your girl friends. My GF (who is bi) often brings back a female friend for a weekend of kinky s**. MARVELLOUS

  • A MMF does not involve s** between the 2 men. That's a MFM (or is it the other way around?). Anyway, if the guys are straight then its just them f ucking the woman - all the attention is on her and she either gets spit roasted, dp'd, or is constantly being f ucked for hours, with one guy going while the other recovers. That way the woman gets to experience an hours long f uck which she couldn't have with just 1 man.

    Getting your man to agree to it is another thing. Some are too jealous to handle it.

  • If he doesn't feel comfortable with something he shouldn't be forced to do it or be guilt-tripped when he won't comply.

  • A Woman Caught in Adultery

    1Jesus returned to the Mount of Olives, 2but early the next morning he was back again at the Temple. A crowd soon gathered, and he sat down and taught them. 3As he was speaking, the teachers of religious law and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in the act of adultery. They put her in front of the crowd.

    4“Teacher,” they said to Jesus, “this woman was caught in the act of adultery. 5The law of Moses says to stone her. What do you say?”

    6They were trying to trap him into saying something they could use against him, but Jesus stooped down and wrote in the dust with his finger. 7They kept demanding an answer, so he stood up again and said, “All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!” 8Then he stooped down again and wrote in the dust.

    9When the accusers heard this, they slipped away one by one, beginning with the oldest, until only Jesus was left in the middle of the crowd with the woman. 10Then Jesus stood up again and said to the woman, “Where are your accusers? Didn’t even one of them condemn you?”

    11“No, Lord,” she said.

    And Jesus said, “Neither do I. Go and sin no more.”

  • Lady watch this movie, it helped me out of a dire situation:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5hexhw3wWmE

  • ^^^. Its so easy for simple minded people to get so influenced from a movie.

    OP. How old are you guys. I was repulsed when I was younger by MMF. I am a straight male. After trying group se x and dp. I find it very hot. Sure there will be slight male contact during dp. But its so hot I was focusing on how the girl was being pleasured.

  • If you both was 3sm's it should encompass both you desires mmf & mff or the one party is being selfish.
    Me and my husband do both and enjoy both

  • I read your narration with deep sense of empathy. A lot of folks have had enough confusion from a "confused world" to last for a life time! Lack of "personal identity" can bore oneself sick even to having suicide thoughts . Have I once considered suicide in my life? Yes and indeed, many folks you see that walk the streets are full of challenges and pains that were inflicted or innate. In my own case, in my teens , I thought I will not be able to achieve anything because I was abused as a child , lived in a home that always felt like an explosive device was about to ignite. I struggled with these feelings and tried to fill the void via alcohol and "street smokes". I found fake boldness that was transient. I envied and wanted to be like others. I began to steal. Well, I am an adult now, well educated, employed, married, had kids, drug/alcohol/smoke free, and really free from all my demons. How? Yes, I know that this will be the question in your heart. It sounded foolish and dreamlike but it was real. Someone gave me a copy of "New Testament and Psalms and proverbs"; a little blue covered book which could fit into my pocket. It was published by Gideon international. I began to read it from "The Gospel of John" like he advised me. I love reading and it made sense. Well, I may not be able to tell you all that happened to me but I discovered that as I read it daily, I began to be attracted to and talk to the main character in the story; Jesus and it seemed like and old self of mine was dropping off daily. At some point , I was shocked when I was out with my friends and realized that I hadn't touched alcohol in the past 2 weeks! And the stranger thing was that alcohol lost its appeal to me. In fact, it disgusted me. My friends told me that they will "give me just three months" and I will drink myself to stupor like before. well it has been years and I keep getting better; more pleasant than the person I ever tried to be. Jesus is beautiful.

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