Threesome conversation

I expressed to my boyfriend my interest in threesomes (of all compositions). He's interested in MFF, but not MMF. I'm interested in both, and I want both! Is there a respectful way to persuade him to entertain the idea of another dude in the bedroom? Is it fair for me to want to?

Oct 13, 2015

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  • Take it easy. Don’t force any situation. MMF are tough for selfish men like me. I’m working on it though. She didn’t force me. I understand she has a boyfriend she dates but being with them is hard. When we go to bed she usually calls him from bed besides me and speaks with him 10 to 20 minutes before sleeping. She touches herself while speaking with him. I know she really would like that I join them for a MMF so while she was speaking with him I reached under her panties and kind of fingered her while they spoke. She really liked it and paused her conversation to kiss me passionately and she thanked me. She then told him what I was doing. It was our first MMF.

  • Threesomes are great. We don’t do full interaction ones though. We do both MMF and MFF alike. We share the bedroom but not the bed. We do the massage type. When my girlfriend comes we set up a table in our bedroom, my wife is around and free to come by but she chooses to play with her toys in the tub and dedicate time to pamper herself. When her BF comes is a little different. I don’t interact with him either but I choose to be around working on her shoulders and b****** while he eats her out and she typically gives me a b******* as he f**** her. She typically gets his load inside and swallows mine.

  • Well Danielle, maybe you should accept what he says and move on. Learn to lick some ladies and satisfy your man.

  • I'm within a similar situation.However,
    I want to explore my lesbian side and I don't want another man,to penetrate any part of me,if he isn't my partner.
    My man is the only male,I want and desire.I just want,to explore my lesbian side.

    Maybe your man feels threatened,jealous and intimidated,at the idea of another man that isn't him,making love to you.
    I can understand why.
    Don't force your man,to do something,he's not comfortable with.
    If he's happy with another girl being involved,settle for that.Relationships are about,"compromise" :)

  • Most MMF are just that, the men are interested in the woman. As a woman that sounds very exciting to me. He must be a very controlling guy if he is OK with two woman for him and not two men for you. Seems selfish to me.

  • MMF is one where the dudes would do stuff with each other. MFM is where they don't, the key is the letters touching. My gf and I have had a MFF threesome and are going to have another threesome next weekend. Though we aren't sure if it's going to be MFM or MFF but either way i'm pumped.

  • What is it when there is four guys and only one girl and they are all doing her

  • Gang bang!! MMMMF

  • It isn't what you think. MMF someone is going to be stroking while watching the other two unless they are bi. MFF again unless they are BI someone is on the outs. I did it once never again was a let down. But try it and see.

  • All participants must agree and set regulations to be followed. Otherwise don't do it.

  • I, myself, not into MMF. So no.

  • NO not if he doesn't want it. I am a heterosexual male and the thought of having s** (of any sort) with another man frankly revolts me. Your BF may well feel the same. Looks like it's time to sound out your girl friends. My GF (who is bi) often brings back a female friend for a weekend of kinky s**. MARVELLOUS

  • If he doesn't feel comfortable with something he shouldn't be forced to do it or be guilt-tripped when he won't comply.

  • If you both was 3sm's it should encompass both you desires mmf & mff or the one party is being selfish.
    Me and my husband do both and enjoy both

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