Wife lied about her past and had threesomes, group s**, etc

The husband was virgin n The wife who lied about her past confessed about her promidcous past only after marraige when the husband found out from someone else and confronted her,she said she feared of loosing him and being judged. Now the husband is shocked and feels like his world is been destroyed as he feels deveived and did'nt expect to Marry a woman with such nature as he abstained s** al through went in vain, he cang sleep as only images flashes out in his thoughts n even feels ashamed that he had met some of her exes after marraiges and was inaware till then. How should he be helped to get rid of it and bring him to normal.? N whats the work of the wife now? Sry for the lenght Readers.

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  • There's no easy solution here. People have the right to seek whatever they want from a partner. Some people can find a way to move past something like this and some people can't. It's totally up to the virgin to decide to stay in the relationship, or leave it. He should not stay if he is going to be miserable on an ongoing basis.

  • This is why the whole virgin with the s*** scenario doesn't work. These stories never end well. Both parties need to amicably split and find someone who is compatible with their needs and pasts. He needs to find a new girl who shares his values and doesn't have a colorful sexual past and she needs to find herself a guy who has done the same kinds of deeds she has done so that way both people are happy and there's no resentment. This marriage will not survive no matter how much therapy you throw at it. Hopefully by now they've ended it and moved on to new more compatible partners.

  • With a situation like this, the guy feels the woman he thought was good and pure turns out to be just another cheap piece of s*** who conned a poor virgin sap into a sham of a marriage. She might as well have cheated on him in his mind. If he or you ends up reading this, tell him to just file for divorce and dump her like the piece of trash she is because I promise you, he will never get over it. Then when that's done tell him to go out and sleep with as many women as he can. That way the next woman he meets, he won't have this problem because the odds will be even this time. Problem solved for both present and future.

  • If she's freaky in bed with him twofold then who cares. If however she's a prude and refuses certain s** acts with him then to h*** with that, time for a divorce.

  • Sounds like a lucky man to me. Wish my wife was freaky like that. He needs to pull the stick out of his ass and enjoy this special lady.

  • Well, no one is perfect. As long as the wife is healthy and no longer prone to doing these things, why not forget it. The important thing is they can find happiness and balance in other areas of their life - s** is not all.

  • Yeah but if he's that devastated and disgusted by her, then there's no point in continuing the marriage. No amount of counseling and talking is going to sway him. I wouldn't want to be married to a cheap s*** like that, especially if I feel I was decieved.

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