My wife loves being my s** toy

My wife is 35. 17 years younger than me but loves the way I am with her. I am 53 from Essex / south London. I have been looking for blokes my age to play out scenarios of being one of my old mates & me letting them play with her as she loves blokes from my area & personality. Unfortunately I can't ask my mates as they are of course all family men now. So frustrating. She now saying I not trying hard enough lol