You men are so confusing...help!
I met a guy online, and then in person. He was nice looking. We shared drinks, and conversation. We parted ways. He was nice, but I didn't think he was into me. I was ok with that, and mentally moved on. Before I even got 5 minutes away from the restaurant he texted me to tell me I was sexy.
So, we hang out a few more times, and we have s*x. He's kinky and I like that.
Then, the messages kind of drop off. I don't pursue him, since he seems otherwise busy/uninterested. No big deal.
But, then he keeps periodically messaging me. I never message him first. I am not into games, but I also don't chase men that don't show an indication of interest. So, I decided to call a spade a spade and let him off the hook - just in case he feels obligated to occasionally message since we did have s*x. I told him that he seems busy and I am busy at times as well, and he doesn't seem all that into me, and that's ok.
He comes back with "That's not true, and I really want to see you again."
Probably he just wants s*x, but he is nice looking he could get s*x from lots of women (and probably is). He doesn't need me. I've made it extremely easy for him to walk away guilt free (not that there was ever any reason for guilt). I was very up front that I don't want a bed buddies situation.
Any men care to tell me what they think is going on here?