A*** and DP Advice
So my girl and I were chatting and she started to tell me how she wanted to try a*** because she read an article about girls that really like it and get into it. I thought why not, I am willing to try it because pleasing my girl turns me on, as long as I am doing the pleasing.
First time we tried, used coconut oil as lube since we did not have anything else. Long story short, her a** was so tight I could not push it in. Yet we tried again another day because she liked the feeling of her a****** being rubbed, this time using actual lube. I still found it tough to get it in her a**. More progress than the last time though, got my d*** in but at a sluggish pace.
I want to try again because she liked it and I said if we can get it to work, I'll DP her with one of those DP harnesses. She got curious upon hearing that yet she keeps saying no cuz she said a*** is too hard and she feels it will hurt after the last experience. Her a****** does not seem to stay open like in p*** so we start from ground zero once I pull my d*** out.
Anyways, now I am set on trying it cuz I know she was curious about it and need to convince her. Maybe I could lube a toy and do it for her and keep it in and maybe that'll help? Then strap on the harness and DP her? Suggestions?
How do you feel about this situation?