S** with wife depresses me

S** with my wife depresses me. When we do have s** it always ends up being me pleasing her. She almost never touches me, unless I tell her what to do, and then she seems rather uninterested in what she's doing. I've tried to talk to her about it many times, but she keeps coming up with odd excuses (I have not imagination, it's the guy's job, etc.) and she never seems to remember the last time we talked about it, so she acts like "oh my, I didn't realize". This same thing has happened in just about every relationship I've been in. Am I that good in bed or am I too grotesque to deserve attention? It's destroying my self esteem. Men need to feel desired too; at least I do. It's gotten to a point where just thinking about having s** with her makes me feel depressed, so I don't initiate it much any more. We haven't been even remotely intimate for nearly three months now and I'm losing it (I have the same s** drive I did when I was 15). So much so that I almost cheated on her with a guy. It's not that I'm into dudes, but "any port in a storm" if you know what I mean. The guilt of cheating stopped me. I don't know what to do. I'm so lonely and h****.

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  • So depressing. My wife seems to be lazy when it comes to s**. I can tell her things I like but when we are in bed she forgets it all. She is dead sexually. It does not seem to matter what I do she rarely gets turned on. She will just lie back legs apart and tell me to go inside her. F****** boring as s***.

  • Go f*** a h*****, just bang it out of your system

  • I can barely understand what yhese other commenters are saying they can't writr English. I've been in a similar situation where the wife stopped initiating and we didn't have a baby and I'm on the ball when it comes to taking care of her in and out of the bedroom. After some experimenting and deciding when we would have s** my wife's problem seems to be that she wants to be taken and "forced" to do it which is not my natura state of mind but I'm trying to work up to it.

  • Thanks dude. I was thinking the same thing. I'm just so worried about pushing it too far. Plus, it's not something I'm normally into doing.

  • Find a f***** and blame wife

  • Uv become a fairy dont blame ur wife u complain about having 2 please her ur a true f*****

  • From what you have said you are thinking about sleeping with men? Is it really your wife what is it you?

  • Its me i want men not wife

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