For some reason I'm really attracted to one of my teachers... But the thing is he's 35 and I'm 13. I know nothing will ever happen I just can't get him out of my head and we always seem to be alone with each other. I'm a lot more mature mentally than other people my age, and I relate to teachers much more than my peers, and I'd rather have a conversation with a teacher, too. The thing is he's not actually that attractive but I'm so attracted to him and I don't know why. I told my friend and she said it's understandable.

Oct 6, 2016

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  • You're 13. You maybe mature for your age, but you're still a child. To engage in any form of relationship with an adult at your age, is inappropriate and against the law. I'm aware that within some cultures and countries, it's a way of life. But that doesn't mean, it's right!!

    Please take into consideration aswell, that the adult you have feelings for, is your teacher. Your teacher may love their profession, love teaching, be in a loving relationship and have children.
    Don't pursue this, the teacher has more to lose, if people misconstrue and take out of context, the teacher pursuing you, instead of noticing you pursuing the teacher.

  • Don't worry- I would never act upon it.

  • Thanks everyone for the advice and support! πŸ’–πŸ’–

  • Something i tried that might work for you too is that I started going by his room every day after school just to say goodbye for the day and when I was leaving I would kiss him on the cheek. Not sexy just a kiss. Then after I did that for a couple weeks, I started to moving my kisses a little closer and closer and closer to his mouth and leaving my lips on his face a little longer. Finally I just straight kissed him on the mouth. I didn't give him tongue but I held it on there and then opened my mouth just a little and he put his tongue in my mouth and grabbed me and kissed harder and we made out and then he held my body up on his and we humped hard. And then we started dating because neither one of us ever wanted to not be with the other one. It was like we had magnets in our privates. We've been having a relationship for almost a year. So, please don't think it can't happen for you. It totally CAN happen for you.

  • It's incomprehensible and disconcerting to think, a minor is encouraging another minor, to engage in a inappropriate pupil/teacher relationship. The OP is 13, not 23!!!!

  • Aw tysm πŸ’–

  • Leave him a love note. Something short like "last night I masturbated to o***** thinking about your tongue on my soaking wet hairless p**** and c***." I've done that since my freshman year in high school and it's so funny looking at them the next day trying to figure out who left the note.

  • I would πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ but he like never leaves his classroom πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

  • As in as a joke not for real πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

  • ..... i love one of my teahers too so i am glad you have this page on here...... i really really really need to be with him and so i want to keep cheking back to see what you are doing with him......there are some really good ideas here..........and i think some of them will be good in my situatoin....... i daydream about my teacher that i love and i fantasize like crazy for him.....i think he would be shocked if he knew some of the super dirty thoughts i have for him every day.....god the things i want him to do to me!......i hope you get with yours soon...........i wish there were more posts about this because its so real and its so relevent.......maybe you should start your own website to give advice to girls in this predicamint .......... i think you would be so good at it!!! thanks.......kayla

  • Thank you so much Kayla- that's so sweet! I feel exactly the same as you do, so never think you're weird for liking him. I'm always looking back at these comments because the advice is amazing and some of the others just make my day like yours did! I hope I can move things along with him too, even though my friends say it would be really bad. I don't care what they think- he's always on my mind. He's on holiday for a few days now... I miss him already. Lots of love πŸ’–

  • I agree with Kayla: you should so TOTALLY start your own website that only deals with these kinds of relationships. That would be so cool! We could all meet there and talk about the teacher we love so much and what we can do to connect with him and to make our relationships with him better and find ways to handle problems with not letting his wife get in between us but keep us number one in his life and his heart. I'm sorry to hear that your man is gone away for now and I know that sucks hard and it really hurts your heart so much. I feel for you and I really hurt too, knowing that you don't have your man. But I was wondering if you have a way that you can text him or email him or maybe even talk to him on the phone without anybody knowing: do you have contact with him away from the class? I have the same feelings for one of my teachers and he doesn't know (and his wife is kind of a b****), so I think of us kind of like being sisters. Does that sound insane? :-) Anyways have a great day and thanks for starting this page so much!!!!!

  • And aw thank you so much! Your comment made me smile 😊 I might try and work on the contact thing... As soon as I leave school (and am legal lol) I will ask him for his numberπŸ˜‚πŸ˜Š You can never sound insane to someone like me lol πŸ˜‚ love πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–

  • I think you should ask for it now anyways. Its not like thats a criminal problem or something. :) Thanks for not thinking that I was crazy for me saying you and me seem like sisters to each other. So Sweet! ......your sister

  • If I were to make a website, what would you guys want it to be called? Would it be about age gap crushes and liking older people or just teachers? πŸ’–

  • At least for at the beginning I think I would like it more if it was just only about relationships with teachers, but maybe thats because thats more to do with me and not so much for other girls who love men who are older than them but aren't teaching them. You can choose the whole thing and the people who you want to get in as far as I am concerned. If you made it about teachers you could call it "Teach Me". Thanks for sharing all this with us and for putting so much thought into what your doing. Your so nice to us!! THANKS!!!!!

  • ....i like 'teach me'.......another couldl be 'after class' ......or 'after school'......... it would be a great advise site for those who love there teachrs ........ i so totally love one of mine so f****** much..... ........so f****** much....... f***

  • I'm the same. I totally love the idea of your website being just about just teachers. Ever since I wrote you here the time before I have been fanasizing that my teacher would come on here and see what I wrote and reallize its me and then come to class the next day and tell me he saw what I wrote and reallized my feelings and that he feels just exacly just the same for me too. He would kisss me and he would say he loves me more than he loves his wife and then we would start. The idea is the sexiest thing ever! And if there was a website for it I think that fanasy would be something that could hapen even easier. You are so smart!

  • Thank you guys so much for your comments; you're so sweet! I really appreciate you guys sharing your experiences because it makes me realise that maybe my crush isn't so weird, despite what people close to me have thought. I will try and make a website soon and I can't wait for everyone to feel safer and to go into more detail on their lives! Love πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–

  • I am having this same problem in my life now too. i hope you will tell me what you do so i will know better what i can do in my own life with my own teacher. i dont think he knows yet thats how i feel but i am starting to have trouble hiding it. i want him so bad and i love him so much.

  • Read the other comments on this- they're so helpful! But I think my teacher is starting to realise I like him because he's noticing me more now; just be around him as much as possible πŸ’–

  • Hmmm very interesting. I am a 35 year old teacher and I have the hots for one of my 13 year old students. Wouldn't that be funny if we were both confessing about each other? If it really is you, I'll drop my pencil in class on Tuesday as a sign that I know....

  • Can't wait til you're on the s** offender registry.

  • But you still think the age thing is OK? Glad I'm not the only one. But I think he has the hots for another teacher

  • Sorry, "Sir" but I don't have that teacher on a Tuesday...

  • Fake troll

  • If I was faking it I would have made up some stupid s** scandal story like the real trolls on this website. But nope, I'm just a 13 year old who has a crush on her teacher πŸ˜‡

  • Nope... I just fly like my teacher πŸ˜‚

  • *really

  • You'll meet smarter people your age when you get older. Ride out the loneliness for a bit

  • Thanks for the advice 😊

  • You're attracted to him because he's a nice educated man and he treats you with respect. Having said that hold off the attraction until you get older. Don't mess up your life and his by acting on the attraction and doing something stupid.

  • I won't- I just help him out a lot after lesson because he knows I'd rather have a conversation with a real adult than a peer. Thank you for your advice BTW 😊

  • Don't dismiss the possibility of something happening. I had a relationship with a teacher and it was the best one I have ever had.

  • Really- what happened??

  • I was scared like you and froze when I tried to tell him my feelings. So I just started hanging out in his room after class and after school and sort of became his assistant for his teaching. Finally, I would be there after school every day and he figured out that I liked him so much and so he asked me if I did and I just blurted out that I was falling in love with him. He tried talking me out of it but he couldn't. After another week he asked me again if I still felt strong for him and I started crying and said I loved him so much it hurt. I told him I just wanted to be with him so much. I said I didn't want to explode his marriage or nothing or make him lose his job. I said I wanted to be in his life and for him to be in mine. I told him I would get on bc so he could do me without having to feel latex and he could just lose it in me every time. We had dates once a week until Christmas and then he said he wanted me to commit to him but I told I already had done that. Then we kept being together and we stayed a couple even after I graduated. His wife never knew and nobody else ever knew either. I loved him more than I have ever loved any other man and I was happier in that relationship than in another I was ever in.

  • Wow. That sounds amazing - I wish I could have something that special 😍

  • I really believe in my heart that you can have that or maybe something even better with the teacher you love. Just be around him as much as you possibly can. Tell him you want to be his T.A. and help him as much as you can and that you want to learn things from him and not just the things he teaches in your class. The more you are around him the more he will know that you are in love and that your serious about him. And then he will start to open up to you and before you even know it you will have him and he will belong to you. Don't wait anymore for something just to happen on its own. Start being with him and soon you will be getting with him. You know you want it. Go for it.

  • Thank you so much! πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–

  • You are going to be so happy! And I'm so happy for you! Please let us all know how it goes with him! Good luck to both of you in your new relationship!

  • Crush crush crush. How exciting. I remember back then. I was 14 and had the absolute hots for this male teacher. He took us for math. I would get him to come and help me with my work and try to get close to him. So immature I know. As an adult I look back I think that guy was a great teacher. I'm sure he knew what was going on and neither took advantage of me and let me tell you I would have willingly done anything with him and nor did he reject me in a negative sort of way.

    Enjoy the l*** girl!

  • Aha thanks πŸ˜‚πŸ’–

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