Husbands first wifes daughter
So me and my husband have been together for 3 years. We have a 2 year old daughter and I have a 8 yr old son from my first marriage. He did not have kids from his first marriage, but he had a step daughter. He's known her since she was 5. She's now 17. Her mom moved her away two years ago to the completely opposite coast! They divorced when she was 12. Her dad has always been involved in her life but because of his job he lives far away. While my husband was married to his first wife he paid for everything for his step daughter. And continued to when they divorced. Bank accounts and everything for her. Since we had our daughter I feel like all that should not be happening. Especially since when she was living close to us she barely spoke to him and only did when he was buying her something. That hasn't changed. He sends her gifts, not just for holidays or birthdays and it bothers me. She NEVER contacts him unless he sends her something or he sends the first text. And even then its a quick thanks, or hi. We got married a couple months ago. She couldn't come to the wedding. He bought her something because he felt bad she didnt come. I was ok with that. What i wasn't ok with was he also sent her a gift card WE got for our wedding. Am I wrong for all this upsetting me? We did discuss this but it always ends in a fight. He thinks of her as HIS daughtet, but I know for a fact she doesn't feel that way about him. It bothers me and we fight alot about all this. Any advice?