Threesome with my girlfriend and bestfriend

Me and my ex are apart currently. The reason is that I don't think I should settle with a partner who is capable of acting upon what she's dreamed of doing. Especially if it's wrong. Me and her now have been talking for a year and some change. We started off with a very healthy relationship and as time went by. Things started to happen. The most drastic thing is that s** with me her, and my bestfriend. At this time we were taking a break. That morning we were texting. We weren't on good terms but we knew that some time all of this nonsense would go. Later after she texts me " I love you " and lots of things I wanted to hear. I then thought of something that I think would be good for testin her loyalty. Yes a test , because the reason why we were in break was because another incident has happened. I asked her " let's have a threesome " . She responded " with who ? " and I said " my bestfriend". She did ask if I was sure . In fact , when she acted on it , before we started , she went in the bathroom and was hesitating to do it. Even so, she went through with it. Back to when we were texting , what shocked me is that she been thinking about the threesome idea. My heart dropped instantly , from there I wanted to cry. At the time this happened, I was recording her while my bestfriend f***** her. Staring into her eyes, felt like my heart was getting darker every second. After the s** , she tells me that she never wants that to happen again and that she didn't enjoy it. So till now I think at night, how can someone who loves me this much , can do something that harsh. Till now , this is what's keeping us apart. I do care for her a lot , but there's been times where I tried to leave her completely and it felt real good. She has found her way back into my life and it's hard to let her go. She wants to marry me and have my kids, she respects me to the fullest and she is faithful. What do I do ?

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  • The better question is... if you profess to love her, then how could you ever ask her to sleep with someone else? Your test had a flawed logic, and you failed.

  • You idiot. You set her up, gave your consent and she did it because you wanted her too. Leave her - she deserves better than you.

  • You are dead on! Wtf the op brings up wanting a threesome then gets p***** because she goes through with it thinking its what he wants. OP grow the f*** up .

  • Time to move on. You have a bad vibe with her. It's only going to get worse if you stay with her.

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