My wife and I have been married for several years now. We got married right out of high school and we have never had anyone else in our bed. The other night I thought it would be fun if her and I drank some wine and played truth or dare. A few round into the game my wife asked for a truth, so I asked her if she every thought about f****** someone else. She said that she has this fantasy where some stranger come in the house when I am gone and rapes her. She goes on to say how this man has a much much bigger d*** than me and how it's so big that is literally splits her p**** open and she bleeds all over as he continues to f*** her. He finally c*** in her and then leaves the house never to be seen again. Afterward her p**** is so torn up that she no longer feels my d*** and leaves me setting out on a quest to find her strange lover. I was shocked at what she said and we ended up in a big fight. She kept saying that it was just a dumb fantasy and that it didn't mean anything. I disagree, a fantasy is wanting to be f***** by some stranger, but not ending with my wife leaving me to go find her rapist. Am I wrong, can leaving your wife or husband be part of your fantasy?