I am p***** at my best friend. her life is in jumbles right now. i am trying to help her out by making her realise she CAN walk away from it all. i travelled far away to see what's happening w/her and the sitch scares the life out of me. the girl has much on her shoulders and doesn't realise the scars that will transpire and how she will live w/them for the rest of her life. i try to give advise and she's set on doing whats best in the long run. she's not worried about now. it's killing her and it's killing me to see it. i must be vague with the severity of happenings. i fear for her if its written. i will confirm my girlie is amazing, beautiful, successful, intelligent. these are the qualities of why i admire her in many ways. my bf is stuck and thinks one way is the only way she can act. i have told her time and time how to change the happenings. she's afraid b/c of her child and wont make a hasty move or action. how do you tell a person you love to stop and get rid of the fear when that person has blinders on with a plan?
i've been terrible to her for a couple of days and hurt her feelings immensley. i started a terrible argument between us and i know she doesnt need another problem such as this. i have said the worst hurtful words to her :(
i get so angry at her because she's too focused on the long run not what is happening NOW.
how can u get through to someone who is afraid of losing what she's worked hard for.. how can another person make one realise there are more important things in life than well layed plans in the future? how do i make her realise there is NO WAY her child will be taken from her? AND how the h*** will i apologise to her?