I was molested when I was 5 last year 13 years old I was practically molested but I stopped it this year 9 grade 14 y/o same thing as last year...now I'm afraid to he alone when a guy to have a bf or even get a hug..but there's this guy he's my ex when we were going out he asked me to go into town with him I didn't wanna be alone so I ditched him and I got scared and broke up with him a few days later but I still really like him and I wanna get over this fear of guys and if I could ever have a second chance I would put it aside for him and at least pretend I'm not scared and see if I eventually get over it...but I no I'll never get a 2nd chance

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  • Those f****** are preying on you. Fight back. Assert yourself and know your rights. If you are feeling threatened then protect yourself.

    This may lead to the alienation of you from men but just how safe do you think you need to be? You'll have to learn how to judge a man. You'll be torturing yourself for the rest of your life if you can't get over being afraid of 1/2 of the population of the world.

  • I'm so sorry, hon. It must be very hard for you.

    I think you should seek professional help. You can see a therapist specializes in sexual abuse cases. If you can't do that or want something more anonymous, call this number: 1-800-656-HOPE. It's the national Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network hotline. It's completely anonymous and they can help you out. Give them a call.

  • I'm afraid to be alone with a guy or to have a bf* sorry for the typo

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