Why Does S** Have to HURT!!!!!

I want to know why does s** have to hurt so much I don't get it. Every time my boyfriend and I have intercourse it hurts me. His p**** isn't all that big. Well about 7.25 inches and about 5.5 inches in girth. I'm not sure I'm cut out for this and don't know what to do. I love him but afraid I'll loose him if I don't continue. What should I do? Is there something that will help with the pain? Please anyone. Help!

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  • I know that at one time, my mother developed a similar problem. It turned out she had large cysts growing on her ovaries. A surgeon was able to remove them without damaging the ovaries. It might be worth having yourself checked out.

  • Sounds like your p**** is being stretched, just have him go slower until you get used to him.

  • He should lick your p**** until you are wet and turned on and then f*** you.

  • My stepdaughter complained about it being painfull too, funny I didn't feel any pain just a nice tight, young c***

  • Hot tbh

  • Go back to masturbating you old fool. Or should I say tool. You probably haven't had p**** since p**** had you.

  • Ladies, your v***** will stretch to accommodate any size c***, but if you are not relaxed it won't matter and it will hurt every time. You need to relax and enjoy yourself. Start by masterbating alone so you know what turns you on and what gets you off. Then you can instruct your boyfriend during s**. If you do this it will be enjoyable for both of you without the pain.

  • I'm 17 and half will be 18 this fall. I can't ask my mom these questions she will only freak out knowing that I am having s** with my boyfriend who is 20 years old. She says he's too old for me . I don't enjoy having s** with him. I do enjoy him doing oral but the penetration part doesn't feel good. Not sure what to think. He likes me doing oral on him and it's ok but not my favorite thing. I enjoy rubbing and touching and kissing a lot. Not sure what I'm doing wrong?

  • Are you there now?

  • Where are you referring to? On line?

  • Yes, how long does your foreplay take before s**?

  • The time varies. Usually about 5-10 minutes. If we have more time not worried about being disturbed then it's like 15-30 or about that.

  • It varies. But most of the time maybe around 5-10 on average. If we aren't pressed for time it's more like 15-30 minutes.

  • Does it hurt when he fingers you?

  • Not usually but he doesn't really go very deep if so. I don't care for that. I like when he uses his fingers on my c******* or his tongue. Maybe I'm dry but I don't know. I thought I made fluid to lubricate but now I'm not sure. I know that when excited I seem wet. I usually start getting all anxious when it starts hurting and I just don't know.

  • You need to find out if you are willing I can help you? Then you will know exactly what the problem is

  • I'm willing but what can you do? I guess I could go to the dr. I'm on my mom's insurance. I just don't want a bunch of questions from her or her to know my business. I guess I will have to wait till I turn 18 and then go to the dr but my boyfriend is getting anxious and pressing me. We have to stop and start a couple of times cause it starts hurting. He is getting frustrated with me but It's not my fault I want to make him happy.

  • Does it hurt when he is fingerings you?

  • Don't worry, I'm here, start rubbing your cliterous gently this should get you wet

  • Don't know about wet but I feel h****. Yeah ok well yes now I feeling a bit wet

  • Squeeze your nipples lightly and keep rubbing your cliterous how is that feeling and are you wetter?

  • Well no wetter but I got carried a way and I climaxed. That's it for now. Once I climax it takes me a bit to get it together to where I want to do anything else. I'm usually ready to go long before my boyfriend though. It takes him a good 30 minutes.

  • I can keep helping you through this have you got an email it will be quicker that way

  • Yes I do. But I don't know you well enough to just give it out. I don't anything about you or you about me really.

  • Well let's tell each other about each, but if you are unsure you can block me on your email, I live in great Britain I'm six foot dark eyes and hair, muscular build don't use real names on this site

  • Well it probably doesn't matter now. I told my boyfriend about my post and talking with you. He got really mad and said you were just trying to get naked pictures or f*** me. I haven't talk to him today. He ignores my calls. I didn't think he would react this way like a immature a******. Well it's his loss.

  • I agree he seemed to make it about him, I hope you feel alright?

  • I talked with my BF and he told me he was insanely jealous that I was talking to another man about our problem. He asked me to not do that. He wants to figure it out but by ourselves and for me to not discus with others. He said I should go to my OBGYN and ask about it. I made an appointment with her and she is really awesome understanding person I really like so hopefully she can help us.

  • Well I hope you see this, I understand and if that's what you want to do?
    This have benefitted you and your boyfriend, if you change your' mind I will help x

  • Thanks but I am going to try and see why this is how s** is to me. I am also considering that maybe it's a matter of mind over body. But first I'm going to see if it is my body. Thanks for your interest and help.

  • How old are you?

  • He is fi cking you wrong. Trust me.

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