She lets me have s** with her
My wife told me a while back that she loves me and she thinks I am talented etc. All good. Then she goes on to say that she does not get aroused sexually by me. She said not to try to arouse her. She said things like flowers and movies and date nights and candles are nice and she loves them but nothing will arouse her. She said if I want s** just to say so.
Its kind of a spaced out feeling I have. Mildly depressed. Somehow I am not a man if she does not get aroused by me.
So when I feel like s** I just say Can we do s** and and she almost always says yes and just lies down dead fish style and I get on and f*** her. I imagine her reading a book or putting her earbuds in while I f*** away. She's totally detached.