I always felt it was like the world's best kept secret. Although I'm starting to see word is getting out!

Unsure what your problem is here? You’ve found something you like. Just sounds like you’re embarrassed at the idea of people seeing you dating someone that’s overweight.

Not embarrassed at all. I'd proudly have a large woman by my side. It just wasn't something I was expecting. I've just always pictured myself with a skinny wife, not because of pride, but just because ... well actually I'm not sure why.

I actually feel like I've suddenly become more shallow. Before, I would be open to dating woman of any size or shape. But now, I feel like if they're not fat, they won't be able to excite me sexually in the same way.

I've suddenly limited who I would consider dating. I've always been into much more than appearance. Personality, confidence, and intelligence are more important. But now if I met some amazing thin woman, I'm not sure what I would do. It wouldn't be fair to her if I was just imagining how much more amazing she would be if she were fat every time we were intimate.

It's a big world, and I'm sure I'll find a woman who has both a mind and a body that attracts me. It's just surprising and weird that I never knew this about myself before.