Lovemaking Preference

I'm a normal woman, employed, happy, sexually active, looking for love, etc. My s** life is probably about four times a month. There is one thing I feel embarrassed to tell a partner though. When all the regular actions of love lead to the moment when he enters me, I love to be pushed on my back and have it done hard. I mean put your full weight on me so I can't move and slam it in and out as hard as you can! I can take it and would tell you if I couldn't. It's just me and what I like, but sometimes it seems hard to speak about it. It doesn't mean or define anything about me, I'm not a submissive. I'm just not good at discussing it.

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  • Tell him. Us guys think woman like gentle and slow. Tell him you want rough he can't mind read.

  • My wife tells me "your tiny d*** is so useless" if she wants a pounding. If she wants it straight away she usually ask "is it in yet" or "put it in" after a couple minutes of s**. She knows I like the humiliation

    The best pounding she ever got (so good she told all her friends) was when she text her ex boyfriend whilst we were having s**. She text him saying something like "I miss your huge c***, my husband's little thing just can't compare, send me a d*** pic so I can come after he finishes" with a pic of her glorious t***. He sent several pics instantly, she showed me and I pounded her so hard, oils the stop. She came several times and then I came.

  • So this has escalated after I wrote this. I said let's do it again. But she sent full frontal nudes. Face, t***, legs spread, bent over and one of her deepthroating me saying 'too easy, give me a challenge'. He sent back loads of dirty messages, d*** pics, wanking videos. One message just said 'tell your husband about the cancun jacuzzi. She came, almost instantly. Tonight she FaceTime him during s**, it was like listening to a p****, I came so quick and they both laughed and she carried on with her d**** while I watched. She actually screamed to o*****. She apologised after and said we should stop as it's gone too far but she didn't noticed I wanked off whilst watching.

  • I had girlfriend whisper in my ear 'f*** me hard' and that sent me into overdrive and we had a few minutes of frantic lovemaking. Just tell him this as he gets inside you.

  • We don't know what you do and dont like if you dont tell us. We are always having to play the guessing games. For gawds sakes speak up

  • Tell him. Tell him that you want to be f***** hard. He just needs to know. Most guys probably think you want it a certain way. Scream “harder” if need be

  • Exactly. It's not difficult.

  • I too like it rough, but my boyfriend and I have a 'Safe' stop word in place that either of us can say if things get a bit too much. It works well, although I have never actually used it yet. He seems to know if he is going too hard and eases up, but the thrill of being forced is very real and very common. Discuss it as adults, but make sure it's all consensual. Good luck!

  • I love it that way too. I also like his arms around me squeezing me so I can't move. No worries of course, stop means stop if something goes wrong or gets painful. I just feel wrapped up in love this way with my man. Don't waste time analyzing. Just let yourself enjoy it!

  • Don’t be shy about it. Tell him. Lots of women like the same thing you like. There is nothing wrong with that, in fact is kind of hot!

  • What is this???????? im not sure I want to understand

  • Unless you open up to your partner& let him know what you like he will do what he likes. Remember we have only one life. Don't shy to tell him what you like. Men always happy to hear women's fantasies and fulfill them.
    Good luck...

  • We all have different preferences. My sister loves it slow and deep in missionary position and hard and fast in doggy style, which I like too. We have been a couple for ten years and we do try to mix it up a bit but those positions are definitely our favourite.

  • How old are you? Most women passed 20 up to mid-40s love hard and deep f****** but for this you have to be open with your partner. Best way to do this to open him up - takes time and patience, then open yourself in return. Often watching p*** videos works well. TRY.

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