I'm A BDSM Magnet????

So...

I've noticed that people who approach me in a romantic sense always do so with the idea that I'm into BDSM.
For some reason, I get approached by Masochistic Subs frequently and I'm honestly confused.
Gender isn't really a problem for me, so I've had relationships with both men and women, but they always turn out to be heavily into BDSM and under the impression that I'm a Sadistic Dom???

I don't think I behave in a way that can be construed as Sadistic, but honestly my exs have all had BDSM in common.

I'm not really picky so when my exs told me they were into BDSM, I decided to give it a try. However, It usually changes the dynamic of our relationship and I feel as if I'm suddenly in a business partnership rather than a romantic relationship.

I'm neither into or against BDSM, but I would like to know if anyone can explain why I somehow ended up with a history of Masochistic Sub exes????

Is there anything that might give others the impressions I'm a Sadistic Dom?

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  • Ever since THAT movie came out, most women I know want BDSM

  • Yeah, one can be type cast pretty easily. I know I have. Nearly every woman I've been in a relationship with has asked me to "rape" them. When The Accused came out nearly every woman I worked with informed me that if I ever raped them, they wouldn't press charges. I'm NOT into that at all. My sister was raped when I was very young and I saw the damage she had to deal with. I'm not like that. Not even in play

  • Spirit. Be careful of strongholds and soul ties....for they too(the ones into it) feel deserving of mistreatment....to the point that it gets the off sexually. It's mental, spiritual battle. And they use you, maybe your kind maybe your not. Either way they feel, it involves the soul

  • Something to do with your profile, dumb ass. nipple peircings or certain pics you use, bio. BDSM people are dangerous. A lot of them like murder p***.

  • Bullshit.

  • I can whip you

  • I am a s***** and it is such a power trip.

  • Are you a boy or a girl? If you're a boy it's most likely that you're dating girls and mistly all girls are subs

  • I'm a girl. And I date an equal amount of men and women.

  • Oh okay then yep! You're a bdsm magnet probably from your personality.

  • Going by OP's previous posts, this does not surprise me.

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