S** with best friend

Oh s***. So I’ve been in a relationship for over two years with this guy and we have been going long distance for about a year now. Being apart has made me more h**** than ever. I start fantasizing about my childhood best friend, and best friend now and every time I see him I just want to see what it’s like to kiss, to f***. And it’s so bad. I feel so gross or disloyal to my boyfriend. My s** life is great and I don’t understand why I would want anymore, but my body just longs to see what a kiss would be like with this friend.

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  • Trust your gut. The Temple of God is within, if we don't go within - we go without... So all those intuitive feelings. They aren't coming from nothing..trust God trust your gut
    .. Recent struggle with l*** with my best friend of 10 years. (Falling into the suggestion of regretting what could've been looking at the continuos flirtations Throughout the years along with a few close encounters) ...but I realize I crossed an uncomfortable line and traded my own moral boundery and probably hers too as I acted on it, I crinkled the paper, you can't unwrinkle the paper.. she's in a relationship it was an uncomfortable position for both of us, she has spoken to me only once since than and not in person...so was it worth it? No? Yes? Did someone become removed from my life because that wasn't their position in my life?...was i spending too much time in the wrong direction...is your fantasy worth your relationships? Do you know how much of life can change in one hour and are you ready for that? Is it fantasy or is it real... Maybe talk to them both. Clearity helps but Lustful intentions don't help anyone.. "Sin hurts everyone" even those not immediately involved

  • I’m a 48 year old woman. I know exactly what you are going through.

    My suggestion is go get it honey. If you want it go and get it. Otherwise you will spend the rest of your life wondering what could have been

  • Dude everyone feels something similar to this it is probs not unloyal I myself have fantasized about similar things

  • I know, I’ve been told this is normal. But I still feel so weird having these feelings.

  • You are in a long distance relationship. Sounds like you need more action/attention. I think you need to ask for an open relationship.

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