My husband doesn't want to have s** with me

I'm 24 and have an attractive body and face. I'm not a supermodel, but I'm not ugly. My husband and I do not connect sexually. I would have s** three times a day if I could. I'm always h**** and want to jump his bones. He has a very physically demanding job and at the end of the day he's just too tired to have s** with me. We maybe have s** once every two weeks. That's not enough for me and I am beginning to feel very resentful and inadequate.

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  • I don't understand this misconception women have that men are supposed to always want s** and all the woman has to do is be the gift. Women put zero effort in to truly understanding what a man wants. Your husband is a normal guy who doesn't crave s** all the time mostly because men do 90% of the work. It gets tiring. If you're a woman your role in the bedroom goes way beyond looking attractive. Learn him. Not just sexual stuff but what gives him that extra energy at the end of the day. You have to put in more effort than shopping for clothes that make you look sexy. You actually have to learn what men want and it's not just a s**. Your inadequacies are not how you look. Women would rather just find another guy that wants them than work on themselves.

  • If you've tried everything to entice him and it's still not working, try discussing this matter with him. Work related stress regardless of gender, can affect a person's libido. And if this doesn't work, try relationship counselling.

  • If he can't find energy to have s** with a 24 year old wife, what will happen in 10, 20 years? I would be finding a new job if I were him! There is no way I would ever not have enough energy. S** is important in a relationship.

  • You may not be old or ugly or poorly built, but dear sweet mother of Christ, you are BORING. You are too self-centered to be truly sexy. To paraphrase JFK . . . . "ask not your husband can do for you, but what YOU can do for your HUSBAND." That's what sexiness is: the ability to generate active desire in others. For God's sake, you're a woman: nobody should have to explain to you how to make a man want you. As they say, if a man isn't coming after you, it's not because he doesn't want to F***. . . . it's because he doesn't want to f*** YOU.
    Make him wanna f*** you. Get nasty. Stay nasty.

  • Your age is the h**** years of your life and your husband may have remained tired working physically demanding job. In this situation you may m********* to cool you off and ask your husband to spend some relaxing weekends/holidays elsewhere where you can f*** your brain out!!

  • Easiest and less problematic solution would be m***********. Try doing it watching your favorite p***. start trying s** toys. A viberator will definitely help you.

    Try dressing up glamorous often at home and crack naughty jokes whenever you can. Masterbating in bed next to him may increase his mood and he may join you. It won't hurt going online naked with face covered if it interests you. Men love it!

  • Yes, some role play would probally help. Couldn't hurt! But in any event, "dressing for bed" is ALWAYS going to aid your cause. Be playful. Be aggressive. Let him know you really just "gotta have it".

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